Meet the Haus of Blaque TEAM
Haus of Blaque (formerly Kinkyblackhouse) is a Black queer run pop-up kink space that centers Black and Brown + Queer & Trans folx. Our mission is to curate safe(r) spaces for QTBIPOC to educate themselves on kink & BDSM , explore their desires, be affirmed and celebrated in their identities, find community with people who share intersections, and change the perception of Black queer kink.
Thee Blaque Dahlia
Dahlia (they/them) is a queer, non-binary kink educator, community curator and community space organizer and Pro-Domme based in Memphis and Chicago. They are ½ of HOB/KBH & co-founder of co-topping duo Bxbylon, and Director of Education & Engagement at MeetAtJewels.
In curating luxury hedonism with events and experiences, they have made it their mission to provide safe(r) spaces for QTBIPOC to learn more about the community, explore their desires, and play as their most authentic, unabashed self. From private experiences, interactive events, and immersive guided exploration, TheeBlaqueDahlia will provide you the opportunity to take a walk on the wild side and unleash your inner deviant.
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Kay Black
Kay (they/she) is a queer Black educator, performer, safe(r) space facilitator, and community world builder dedicated to creating liberatory spaces where people can connect, explore, and thrive. Since 2022 they have founded & co run Haus of Blaque (formerly KinkyBlackHouse), a QTBIPOC-centered kink space committed to joy, safety, autonomous consensual pleasure and community growth. They also co-founded/co-ran The Ivy Chicago, a BIPOC-led and centered rope studio that offers education, performance, and space for creative expression from 2023-2025. They currently operate as part of the driving force behind BKA Weekend Chicago, an annual kink conference for BIPOC in Chicago IL.
Grounded in a belief that liberation is collective, Kay builds spaces that feel expansive and affirming, where kink, art, communication, vulnerability and connection intersect. Their work weaves together education, performance, and facilitation to cultivate intentional environments for QTBIPOC communities and beyond.
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Community Guidelines
CONSENT IS KEY
Do not touch anyone or anything without consent. Do not interrupt anyones scene or play without consent.
RESPECT EVERYONE
Being a part of House of Black is committing to the centering and pursuit of queer liberation through kink. In this space, all BIPOC LGBTQ+ will be respected and cared for at all times.
INDULGE RESPONSIBLY
Interactive events will have limited alcoholic beverages available and reserves the right to cut you off or ask you to leave if you are too intoxicated
SAFE WORD
The House safe word is RED. There will be facilitators available at all times and an assistance text line during all interactive events to be able to better support our members. Negotiate all play and ensure all play is consensual.
NO SHAMING
This is a playground of exploration and by joining us for interactive events you are agreeing to respecting everyone else's interests and removing yourself from engagements that don't align with yours.
ADULTS ONLY
House of Black is for individuals aged 21+.
DRESS CODE
House of Black events are always 'dress to express'. Wear whatever makes you feel your kinkiest sexiest self.
NO PICTURES PLEASE!
Private interactive House of Black events will have a no photo/recording policy to protect the privacy of our guests and to give everyone a chance to fully immerse themselves in exploration. Some events will have photo booths or videographers on site and dedicated phone safe spaces that will be clearly noted. Any images or videos will be private to attendees only and anyone in a state of undress will not be recorded without consent.
POLICIES
Please keep up with our recent security, Covid and accessibility guidelines. HoB will release them with every event.
NO VIOLENCE POLICY
House of Black has no tolerance for any emotional, verbal or physical intentional violence that impedes on the space. If you are made to feel unsafe, please reach out to a HoB facilitator for assistance reaching a resolution.